LGBTQIA+ Family Building FAQ

LGBTQIA+ couples have various options for building a family, including traditional surrogacy, gestational surrogacy, and adoption. In traditional surrogacy, the surrogate uses her own egg, while in gestational surrogacy, the child is conceived through IVF using a donor egg or sperm, ensuring no genetic link to the surrogate. Gestational surrogacy is the most common and legally secure option. At ACRC Global, we help LGBTQIA+ couples explore the best family-building options based on their needs and values.

For LGBTQIA+ couples, the IVF process often includes sperm or egg donation and gestational surrogacy, depending on the unique fertility needs of each family. For gay couples, donor eggs are fertilized with sperm from one or both partners, while lesbian couples may use a sperm donor, with one partner carrying the pregnancy or working with a surrogate. At ACRC Global, we support LGBTQIA+ parents at every stage of the IVF journey. We connect you with trusted fertility clinics and specialists, assist in selecting the right egg or sperm donor, and coordinate the embryo transfer to either a surrogate or the intended parent.

Yes, gay male couples can use donor eggs and sperm for IVF. Unlike traditional sperm banks, ACRC offers a fresh sperm donation program that provides Intended Parents with unparalleled access to detailed donor profiles. Our platform features comprehensive information—including adult & baby photos, short videos, and the opportunity for direct communication with donors to empower you in making informed family planning decisions.

The cost of surrogacy for LGBTQIA+ couples can vary based on factors based surrogate compensation, fertility treatments, and legal services, as well as their delicate surrogacy programs. Our team provides a clear breakdown of all costs before the match meeting, so you have a complete understanding of your financial commitment.

We match LGBTQIA+ parents with surrogates who are thoroughly screened and understand the unique needs of the LGBTQIA+ community. Our personalized matching process ensures you find a surrogate who shares your values and is fully committed to your family-building goals.

For gay couples, the surrogacy process typically includes using an egg donor and a gestational surrogate. One or both partners provide sperm to fertilize the donated eggs through in vitro fertilization (IVF). Once embryos are created, one is selected and transferred to the surrogate’s uterus for pregnancy. At ACRC Global, we guide LGBTQ+ intended parents through every step—from choosing an egg donor and surrogate to navigating IVF and preparing to welcome your baby home.

At ACRC Surrogacy, we make finding a Surrogate simple and safe. Our medical review team carefully prescreens each Surrogate by reviewing her previous pregnancy/OB and medical records before she is added to our program. Once you have found a potential match, your chosen IVF fertility clinic will then complete a full medical clearance. This step ensures she is fully approved to move forward with your IVF process. We will guide you through every step of the matching process and arrange a video meeting so you can get to know your Surrogate personally and build a comfortable and trusting connection

At ACRC Surrogacy, we partner with trusted fertility clinics that specialize in IVF for gay couples. Each clinic is staffed by board-certified reproductive specialists with extensive experience helping LGBTQIA+ Intended Parents build their families, and many are proud members of the community themselves. You can explore and compare IVF doctors and clinics through our Global Doctor platform,(www.globaldoctors.net) where you will find detailed bios, specialties, and patient reviews to help you make an informed decision. Our team will also provide personalized clinic recommendations based on your location, family-building goals, and treatment preferences. You are welcome to schedule a free, no-pressure consultation to learn more about your options.

Surrogacy costs for gay couples can vary depending on several factors, including professional agency fees, surrogate compensation, legal services for establishing parental rights, medical procedures, insurance, and co-insurance. Because gay couples also require an egg donor, this adds to the overall cost. Many gay intended parents choose to split the donor eggs to create embryos using sperm from each partner. Some opt to work with two surrogates simultaneously—one for each partner—for a balanced family-building journey. Others may choose to transfer two embryos to one surrogate, which can reduce costs but involves medical risks that must be carefully considered. At ACRC Global, we provide personalized support to help you make the best decision for your family and budget while ensuring a safe and ethical surrogacy journey.

The legal process for gay couples pursuing surrogacy involves creating a comprehensive surrogacy agreement that clearly defines the rights and responsibilities of both the intended parents and the surrogate. This contract is essential for protecting all parties involved and establishing parental rights. At ACRC Global, we partner with experienced legal professionals who specialize in LGBTQ+ family law and surrogacy. From drafting the initial agreement to securing a pre-birth or post-birth order, our team ensures every legal detail is properly managed—so you can focus on the exciting journey to parenthood.