LGBTQIA+ Family Building FAQ

LGBTQIA+ couples have several meaningful options when it comes to building a family, including traditional surrogacy, gestational surrogacy, and adoption. Within surrogacy, couples can choose between traditional surrogacy, where the surrogate uses her own egg, and gestational surrogacy, where the child is conceived through in vitro fertilization (IVF) using a donor egg or sperm—ensuring the surrogate has no genetic link to the baby.

Gestational surrogacy is the most common and legally secure option for LGBTQIA+ intended parents. At ACRC Global, we focus on helping LGBTQIA+ couples explore the best family-building option based on their needs and values.

For gay couples, the surrogacy process typically includes using an egg donor and a gestational surrogate. One or both partners provide sperm to fertilize the donated eggs through in vitro fertilization (IVF). Once embryos are created, one is selected and transferred to the surrogate’s uterus for pregnancy. At ACRC Global, we guide LGBTQ+ intended parents through every step—from choosing an egg donor and surrogate to navigating IVF and preparing to welcome your baby home.

For LGBTQIA+ couples, the IVF process often includes sperm or egg donation and gestational surrogacy, depending on the unique fertility needs of each family. For gay couples, donor eggs are fertilized with sperm from one or both partners, while lesbian couples may use a sperm donor, with one partner carrying the pregnancy or working with a surrogate.

At ACRC Global, we support LGBTQIA+ parents at every stage of the IVF journey. We connect you with trusted fertility clinics and specialists, assist in selecting the right egg or sperm donor, and coordinate the embryo transfer to either a surrogate or the intended parent.

We help connect you with thoroughly screened surrogates who meet your specific needs and preferences. You’ll have the opportunity to interact with potential surrogates via video call, ensuring a comfortable and trusting relationship.

Yes, gay male couples can use donor eggs and sperm for IVF. Unlike traditional sperm banks, ACRC offers a fresh sperm donation program that provides Intended Parents with unparalleled access to detailed donor profiles. Our platform features comprehensive information—including adult & baby photos, short videos, and the opportunity for direct communication with donors to empower you in making informed family planning decisions.

We work with trusted fertility clinics that specialize in IVF for gay couples, staffed by board-certified specialists with extensive experience. Our recommendations are tailored to your location and individual requirements.

Surrogacy costs for gay couples can vary depending on several factors, including professional agency fees, surrogate compensation, legal services for establishing parental rights, medical procedures, insurance, and co-insurance. Because gay couples also require an egg donor, this adds to the overall cost.

Many gay intended parents choose to split the donor eggs to create embryos using sperm from each partner. Some opt to work with two surrogates simultaneously—one for each partner—for a balanced family-building journey. Others may choose to transfer two embryos to one surrogate, which can reduce costs but involves medical risks that must be carefully considered. At ACRC Global, we provide personalized support to help you make the best decision for your family and budget while ensuring a safe and ethical surrogacy journey.

The cost of surrogacy for LGBTQIA+ couples can vary based on factors based surrogate compensation, fertility treatments, and legal services, as well as their delicate surrogacy programs. Our team provides a clear breakdown of all costs before the match meeting, so you have a complete understanding of your financial commitment.

The legal process for gay couples pursuing surrogacy involves creating a comprehensive surrogacy agreement that clearly defines the rights and responsibilities of both the intended parents and the surrogate. This contract is essential for protecting all parties involved and establishing parental rights.

At ACRC Global, we partner with experienced legal professionals who specialize in LGBTQ+ family law and surrogacy. From drafting the initial agreement to securing a pre-birth or post-birth order, our team ensures every legal detail is properly managed—so you can focus on the exciting journey to parenthood.

We match LGBTQIA+ parents with surrogates who are thoroughly screened and understand the unique needs of the LGBTQIA+ community. Our personalized matching process ensures you find a surrogate who shares your values and is fully committed to your family-building goals.