How to Choose the Right Surrogate: What Intended Parents Should Consider
- ACRC Global
- Aug 28, 2025
- 3 min read
How to Choose the Right Surrogate
One of the most personal and important decisions intended parents (IPs) will make during their surrogacy journey is choosing the right surrogate. It’s more than just finding someone who is healthy and willing — it’s about building a foundation of trust, safety, and mutual understanding. At ACRC Surrogacy, we’ve guided many families through this decision, and we’re here to share what really matters.
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🧩 It’s More Than a Profile
Inexperienced intended parents may think of the match process like selecting from a list — but the best surrogate match is not transactional. It’s about finding someone whose values, lifestyle, and communication style align with your expectations and legal situation.
That’s why ACRC doesn’t just send you anonymous profiles. We coordinate match meetings — where you meet the surrogate candidate in a real conversation. This builds connection from the very beginning.
🔍 Key Factors to Consider
Here are some important things intended parents should reflect on when choosing a surrogate:
Medical and Pregnancy History
Look for a surrogate who has had healthy, full-term pregnancies without major complications. It’s important to understand:
Has she experienced any high-risk pregnancies?
Has she needed extended bed rest or hospitalization during pregnancy?
How was her postpartum recovery?
These details help your fertility clinic assess whether she’s a good medical fit for the journey ahead. At ACRC, we carefully review each surrogate’s prenatal and delivery history as part of our screening process.
Family and Lifestyle
A surrogate with stable living conditions, strong family support, and a healthy lifestyle is more likely to manage the journey well — physically and emotionally. At ACRC, we verify these factors through home assessments and background checks.
Communication Style
Some IPs want regular updates and video calls, while others prefer more distance. There’s no right or wrong — but clarity about this from the start helps avoid conflict.
Location and State Law
The surrogate must reside in a U.S. state where parentage law supports your situation — based on your marital status, sexual orientation, and use of donor gametes. ACRC ensures every match is made with legal success in mind.
Relationship Expectations
Do you want a long-term relationship with your surrogate? Occasional updates post-birth? Or no contact after delivery? You should talk about this before matching.
🤝 How ACRC Makes the Right Match
At ACRC Surrogacy, our match process is personal and intentional.
We conduct in-depth interviews with both intended parents and surrogate candidates.
We assess medical, psychological, and lifestyle criteria in detail.
We organize a match meeting where both sides can ask questions and get to know each other before making a decision.
We never push a match that doesn’t feel right — for either party.
Our goal is not to “fill a spot” — it’s to build a safe and trusting partnership that gives everyone peace of mind throughout the journey.
🧠 Tips for First-Time Intended Parents
Be honest about what you’re hoping for in a surrogate — emotionally and practically.
Don’t be afraid to ask questions during your match meeting.
Trust that your agency has done the hard screening work — your role is to assess comfort and connection.
💬 Final Thoughts
Choosing the right surrogate is not just a medical decision — it’s a human one. At ACRC, we believe every match should be built on honesty, care, and legal security. With our support, you’ll find not just a surrogate, but a partner for your parenthood journey.
Want to learn more?
Schedule a consultation with our team and take your first step toward a safe, successful match.
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