Why You Shouldn’t Rush to Transfer Right After Matching

Understanding the Importance of a Thoughtful, Safe Timeline in Surrogacy

A couple are discussing their options with their doctor about moving forward with embryo transfer after they matched with a surrogate.

For many Intended Parents, getting matched with a surrogate is a huge emotional milestone — and rightfully so. After months or even years of preparation, the moment you meet the woman wh

o might carry your child can feel like the finish line is finally in sight.

Naturally, many families ask us the same question shortly after a successful match:

“Can we go straight into the embryo transfer next month?”

 At ACRC Surrogacy, we deeply understand the excitement and the eagerness to move forward. But we also know — from years of experience — that a well-paced journey is not only safer, it’s often more successful.

Here’s why it’s important not to rush into transfer immediately after matching.

⏱️ There’s a Lot Happening Behind the Scenes

 Matching is just one piece of the puzzle. After you and your surrogate agree to move forward together, we enter a complex phase of coordination that involves multiple parties:

•  Medical records and clearances must be shared and reviewed

•  Legal contracts need to be drafted, negotiated, and signed

•  The surrogate must often undergo clinic-specific screening and psychological evaluation

•  An appropriate cycle calendar must be created based on the surrogate’s body and the clinic’s availability

•  Insurance, escrow, and logistical planning must be finalized

 Even under ideal conditions, this process usually takes 8 to 12 weeks before transfer is ready.

📋 Legal and Medical Clearance Isn’t Instant

Each clinic — especially those in the U.S. — has its own protocol for surrogate screening. Even if a surrogate is medically pre-qualified, she still needs to:

•  Complete clinic-specific testing (labs, saline sonograms, etc.)

•  Undergo a psychological evaluation with an independent specialist

•  Obtain OB or MFM clearance if she has prior pregnancy complications

•  Have all her documents reviewed and cleared by the clinic’s board

Simultaneously, attorneys will draft a legal contract outlining everyone’s rights and responsibilities — and that process typically takes 2–4 weeks, depending on how quickly both parties review and approve the documents.

🛑 Rushing to transfer Can Create Unnecessary Risk

Here’s the truth: most complications in surrogacy journeys arise not from medical factors, but from rushed or misaligned expectations. Trying to fast-track a transfer can lead to:

•  Incomplete legal protections

•  Missed medical concerns

•  Surrogate burnout or hesitation

•  Clinic scheduling conflicts

•  Insurance gaps

And if something does go wrong, it often leads to delays that are longer than if you had paced the journey from the beginning.

🌼 A Better Perspective: Set Up for Long-Term Success

At ACRC, we encourage Intended Parents to see the time between match and transfer as an opportunity — not an obstacle. It’s a time to:

•  Build trust and rapport with your surrogate

•  Ask questions and understand the process

•  Prepare emotionally and logistically for pregnancy

•  Finalize travel, insurance, and birth planning

•  Let your body and mind adjust — especially if you’ve just completed IVF

A healthy pregnancy starts long before the embryo transfer. Taking the time to prepare properly shows care for your future child and the woman carrying them.

🤝 How ACRC Supports This Process

We don’t just “wait around” during these weeks. Our team works actively behind the scenes to:

•  Monitor clinic coordination and screening timelines

•  Keep communication flowing between IPs, surrogate, attorneys, and the clinic

•  Guide you through legal, financial, and logistical steps

•  Coach both parties emotionally to feel ready and connected

You’ll never be left wondering what’s happening — we keep you updated, step by step.

🧡 Patience Is Not Delay — It’s Protection

Surrogacy is not a race. Every step, every precaution, every document is part of a foundation you’re building — for your child’s safe arrival, your peace of mind, and your surrogate’s well-being.

We know how much this journey means to you. And we promise — the extra time you take now is an investment in your family’s future.

📩 Ready to learn more about the process after matching?

Let’s schedule a consultation or check-in. Whether you’re about to match, or just beginning to explore options, we’re here to support you every step of the way.