What If My Surrogate Doesn’t Get Pregnant? Understanding Failed Embryo Transfers and What Comes Next?
- ACRC Global
- Jul 31
- 3 min read
One of the hardest things intended parents face — and often aren’t fully prepared for — is the possibility that their surrogate may not get pregnant after an embryo transfer. At ACRC, we understand just how much is riding on that moment. You’ve invested time, hope, and often years of emotional energy to reach this point.
When a transfer fails, it can feel devastating. But the reality is: it happens. And when it does, it’s not the end of your journey — it’s a moment that requires understanding, support, and a clear next step.
This post is here to walk you through why a failed transfer might happen, how we respond, and what your options are moving forward. This way, you can feel a little more prepared for whatever lies ahead.
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🎯 Why Do Embryo Transfers Fail?
Even with the best doctors, healthiest embryos, and an experienced surrogate, sometimes embryo transfers don’t result in pregnancy. Here are some of the most common reasons:
Embryo quality: Even embryos that look healthy may not implant successfully.
Uterine receptivity: The timing of the surrogate’s cycle and endometrial environment may not be ideal.
Medication protocol challenges: Hormonal support is critical — if the body doesn’t respond as expected, implantation might not occur.
Random chance: Unfortunately, sometimes there’s no specific reason. Even under perfect conditions, not every embryo implants.
It’s important to understand that a failed transfer is not a failure of the surrogate, the clinic, or you as intended parents. It is a part of the IVF process — one that many families face.
🤝 What Happens After a Failed Embryo Transfer?
At ACRC, we never leave intended parents to figure it out alone. Here’s how we handle it:
Communication First
You’ll be informed of the outcome quickly and clearly. We coordinate with your IVF clinic and surrogate to understand the results and timeline.
Emotional Support
This is often the most overlooked part of the process. Whether you need time to process privately or want to talk to someone immediately, we respect and support you however you need.
Medical Review
We help coordinate with your clinic to review the protocol, embryo grading, and surrogate’s response. Your clinic may suggest changes — in medication, timing, or even a new embryo for the next cycle.
Planning the Next Step
If there are more embryos, a second transfer may be scheduled (often after one menstrual cycle).
If embryos are limited, you may discuss further embryo creation or options with your clinic.
If the medical team recommends re-evaluation of the surrogate, we work with you to determine whether to continue or consider a new match.
🔁 Does This Mean I’ll Need a New Surrogate?
Not necessarily. Most surrogates are prepared for multiple transfer attempts — and many successful journeys involve 2 or even 3 transfers.
We take your clinic’s input seriously. If there are any concerns about the surrogate’s uterine lining, hormonal response, or emotional readiness, we’ll have an open conversation with all parties. If needed, ACRC will assist you in finding a new match — but only when it’s the right call for your success.
🧭 How ACRC Supports Intended Parents Through It
Failed transfers are emotional and difficult, but you won’t go through it without guidance.
Our role is to:
Communicate clearly with your clinic and surrogate
Coordinate timelines for next steps
Advocate for your preferences while protecting the surrogate’s well-being
Offer referrals to mental health professionals when needed
Keep you informed, empowered, and supported
💬 Final Thoughts
We know this isn’t the outcome anyone hopes for. But it’s not uncommon — and it doesn’t mean your journey is over. The path to parenthood is rarely a straight line, but every step forward is still progress.
If you’re working with ACRC and facing a failed transfer — or simply preparing yourself for all possible outcomes — know that we’re here for you. With transparency, compassion, and a plan.
Speak to one of our specialists to hear how we support Intended Parents throughout! |
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